Friday, 18 February 2011

Oh Dear

Seems I've upset one of those needy persons who depicts herself as a caring, sharing individual but really is an insecure bitchy 'I must be loved by all' individual.

This exchange was the result at an obvious, to anyone with intelligence, pun I posted on a Facebook 'friends' wall in response to his worry over depression and whether it may be related to S.A.D. - Seasonal Affective Disorder - the effect lack of sunshine can have on depression and a comment made by a Lacy Durham..

"Lacy Durham Fly me there, you will cured upon the plane landing.
Yesterday at 06:23 · Like · 1 person

I replied with:


Simon Jones Ah, the sun must shine outta your bum?
Yesterday at 09:35 · Like · 1 person

I then received a 'friend' request from Lacy Durham as it was the only way she could send me her first message, since apparently deleted by her so I can't copy the vituperous message that accompanied the request. I do recall it began with 'I don't want to be your friend' then continued with her bitter diatribe.

I am, however, able to copy/paste the following exchanges, redacting the name of the person who's initial worry began this ..


Between Lacy Durham and You


Simon Jones 18 February at 01:18
I forgot being Xxxxx's Fb friend you'd probably be an American, and apparently, sadly, unlike my other American friends, one of those without a sense of humour. The 'sun shining out of your bum' quip was a pun on the fact that Xxxxx was wondering whether he was suffering from S.A.D. ... Seasonal Affective Disorder, the depression attributed to 'winter blues' being lack of sunshine/vitamin D.
I'm sorry it is you who doesn't have the intelligence to recognise the nuance nor to appreciate the subtleties of language used for humour, which is in fact a wonderful way to help combat depression. I did private message Xxxxx re S.A.D. and vitamin D deficiency which is a known side effect of the TX he undertook along with trying to cheer him up with some humour.
I did not accept your 'friend' request which I appreciate was done purely to enable your sad (another pun for your unappreciative eyes) message. I'd suggest you try to broaden your appreciation of humour beyond your American slapstick.


Lacy Durham 18 February at 02:21 Report
Typical Aussie and UK loser, I have degrees and need nothing explained to me by an angry poor loser. No suggestions here and thank goodness for the block function. I have been to Aussie and all over the world. Y'all are one sad, sad, idiotic bunch. Later, loser.


Simon Jones 18 February at 16:03
Really? .. you have degrees ? May I ask where you purchased them?
You've travelled and seem still to be one of those 'ugly and apparently racist Americans', generally those with a low self-esteem generating from a slowly dawning recognition of their own uninformed myopic view of the world .. I too 'have degrees' (4) however I regard them as secondary to intelligence, something you appear to be lacking, along with a sense of humour. I have travelled all over this world, have appreciated people of all cultures, and actually generally like Americans, now with the exception of you.

Your use of such childish, uninformed nd generalising phrases such as 'typical Aussie and UK loser' and 'later, loser' only serves to reinforce my opinion that you not only lack in intelligence and a decent education but also a reasonable vocabulary. Like your name, you are easily seen through, not having you as a Fb friend only makes me a winner.

So, Lacy, if you want to hide your true nature, don't expose it on the internet.